Why are you so defensive about it?
There is enough understanding from a psychology standpoint to generally (key word) state
That tattoos and poor impulse control are tightly linked
And poor impulse control is a huge negative factor to maintaining long term relationships
So, all the theories people conjure up in their heads upon seeing tats on a potential mate
Are more likely to be correct than wrong
Even if you and your ltr hubbie are a exception to the rule
(although not much of an exception since you both were already into tats)
That's cool and that's your business
My only point was that there are many psychological-based markers
That we are naturally predisposed to pick up on in mating
And, tattoos are a big one (but not the only)
They are not 100% correct but correct enough to say that it isn't a "stupid theory" that makes someone think that way