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God has never asked anyone to give up sex in order to commit to him. He made us purposefully to go forth and propagate. This preoccupation with sex is man turning a perfectly natural act into a vice or obsession.
God expects you only to control your actions and desire's to a measure that they don't take priority over your personal relationship with him first and foremost. Those ten commandments were offered up to help one see where personal behaviors and selfish desire's will get in the way of that goal.
So don't, kill, lie, steal, envy, become greedy, worship idols, take advantage of your neighbor, etc etc etc and it will make it a whole lot easier to concentrate on achieving the ultimate goal. A personal relationship with god.