The same problem exists with islam.
None of it is okay.
As a french atheist, I want to add that I love and fully subscribe to your Christian values. Whatever remains of them here in France is under permanent assault, it is very sad.
I believe we are on the same side of the same fight against the same understanding of evil. I find considerable solace in Proverbs 8:13.
Do you think I may belong with you, not because I believe in God, but because I hold myself accountable to shared principles?