OMG just GTFO
It;s conditioning of the infant, the toddler, the child: manipulation thru withdrawl and apprval until conditioning is achieved simply thru withdrawl …and/or uwarranted lavishing of attention for incinsequential behavior which when withdrawn results in interior chaos
FEAR is turned INWARd by the child – opening the door for multiple levels of abuse thru delivering false "security" to the child from the adult in return for whatever the adult wants.. ver time treated this way Shame results that adults further exploit… then "remove replace" by "teaching" what the adult requires - many levels, multiple disastrous results MASSIVE consequences.
Its not fear…its chaos.