If you have a spouse that speaks another language and the extended family speaks little to no english you must learn to communicate or you are left out of everything when you visit.

anon was born in california and lived all my life here.

this began because of other anons assumption that I knew nothing about PR. I also know how touchy most PR's about identity hence the joke meme with shrub.

whoever you are that started this remember that you've no idea who you are talking to here. Learn that and move on.