Femanon here and I agree with you 100%. I have to work full-time in order to afford the basics and I stress out wanting to take care of my house and family properly. Plus I am raising another woman's child as she is too busy being a drug addict and alcoholic. Child was ruined by her and I cannot provide all the time needed to break her shotty programmin.
Kek! Nope!
Sometimes the reality is too much. If she is smart slowly give info in passing in a nonchalant way. She'll come around.