>Families were not allowed to see much less TOUCH their lost child.
I know a guy who lost a child at Sandy Hook. A normal working class guy. not a jew. defiantly not cabal. he was overseas at the time. Had to make emergency arrangements to get home because they would not tell his wife anything until they were both present. It messed him up pretty good. Not the same guy anymore, depressed, distant, etc so I know he had a real loss. But, he never ever mention to anyone even once that he HAD seen his daughter. Of course its not something you bring up in conversation so who knows.
That being said, I've seen the pictures of the supposed missing kids claiming they are still alive and his kid is in the pictures. Fake? Maybe.