You can't, and that's the point. Trump looks like the reasonable one by at least offering to negotiate. The Dems look like tantrum-throwing children by consistently refusing to even be present for discussions. History will record this as Trump attempting to compromise to find a solution for the problem while the Dems end up being sticks in the mud who don't actually care about anything other than obstructing him.
So she posted her rebuttal before the speech even started?