Man I would give anything for a real life friend like you.
It's still amassing matter.
All visions are just visions, including what you are seeing right now.
This book goes into extreme detail of the dying process.
The Tibetan Book of the Dead: First Complete Translation
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When you dream at night, what exists outside of the barrier at the outskirts of your dream? Nothing, because dreams have no physical existence.
It does not appear that the universe will collapse in on itself anymore.
That's true. We are actually already light, but most are not perceiving it yet.
May all of my merit go to the benefit of all beings finding great spiritual companionship and compassion.