>>4909366
Further to this, we are all human. We have our behavioural models entrenched in each of us. It is important anons stop bickering. There is a behavioural model I read years ago which may be out of date now but it still works for me. It’s called ‘transactional analysis’ and divides the psyche into three parts, paterent, adult and child. When bickering occurs you can bet it’s the children doing the bickering.
Anons, please learn to be the understanding parent or the adult talking. Think about talking to your guests at a bbq as equals and speak to them with respect.
If you can’t control yourself to do that, just move on from the discussion. After all, is one discussion really that important?
To better explain transactional analysis, this discussion is my adult talking to your adult.
Be aware of your behaviour.
Bring your best behaviour here.
HELP each other or shut the fuck up.