What did you score on Roy?
All phenomena in existence are the result of a simultaneity of oppositions. This is universal truth. Adherence to a polar state is an ignorance of that simultaneity.
A. Albert Pike, though my brother, was a dipshit.
B. Anytime someone projects what others need is what we don't need except on anyone's terms but your own. Instead say "this is what I think I would imagine and like".