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It is very good anon that you are able to take in her perspective of your own volition. It may be a sign of an awakening conscience.
Try this next time. Try and take in her perspective WHILE you are taking in your own the next time you are in front of her. Also, try and feel your hands at the same time.
She likely sees her dichotomies and is asking for help. You can be the conduit of Consciousness, don't let it become personal.
Godspeed