Ppl are reincarnated. Souls review their own past life and find the short-comings and want to do better. Souls and friends help the soul to find a life with issues to address the past bad choices. The soul chooses parents that will accommodate the lessons to be learned. Angels guide the new person. Souls enter at the time of birth - breath of life.
Study Laws of the Universe. ie. Laws of attraction: "oh, my life sux… everyone shits on me… i am so weak… I wish I looked better"….
Examples above are telling the universe to support those statements.
Book recommend: free pdf… not tltr….
The Game of Life and how to play it by Florence Scovel Shinn 1925.
Well written, easy to read….