I've been following a similar line of thought, but the physiological aspect,
Think of pain, physical pain is useful, it serves as a warning, alerts you to an injury, stops you from compounding the injury,
After the initial event the pain servers as a reminder to not place yourself in the same situation, you remember the pain, but don't revive the pain, you experience it, understand it and follow it's warning.
Same goes with emotional pain, feel it, deal with it, remember it, unfortunately people today ignore it, don't deal with it, and keep the pain alive and allow the pain to fester, when it should be a healthy reminder to help you avoid making the same mistakes in future, SJW and 3rd wave feminists place all the energy on keeping the pain alive and thereby keeping the person a victim and slave to emotions, which are easily manipulated, triggered.