he is within the world that he was allowed to reside within. And that's sucky for us but seriously he's a young man and his life is far from over. He's had not mentoring, but 'grooming'. it is not the same. cut him some slack.
the picture you have is just a picture. I don't see arrogance. He's not ugly except for that look of hollow eyed sex captive dungeon eyes, which you can get from lack of sleep so it doesn't really 'say' anything.
Give him a break. He was an idiot. He's going to have a lot of shit to have to deal with using the mails if it's true. but innocent till proven guilty, eh?