aye, well, the devil is in the details, isn't he? distinctions matter.
it seems we are not far apart on the matter.
the point is we WILL obsess, because it is what we are wired to do first.
it is the cultivation of the virtues that gives US control of ourselves.
and of course that is all in the Catechism.
but you know that.
Godspeed, anon.