I don't know who you are, but I read all these posts, opsec is important.
How many in the industry could identify you based on a Gaffer, helicopter pilot, 2 failed marriages, 4 kids, and one of your kids requires 24 hour care.
Don't you know this board is viewed by some very dangerous people?
You basically told them who you are.
I pray for your protection. This is not a game.