Long-time femanon here. I've been thinking, haven't heard the rules in a long while.
Kind of miss seeing Nasim's pic, too.
Just rules. You'll learn to laugh. It really is funny - it scares off lots of trigger-types.
Sort of slow in the a.m. There's so much to dig lately, personally, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed and not necessarily comfy about all this.
But they'll come thru. We get to be part of it - fully dressed!