Well, she's going to get "It" regardless.
> i am am very very aware about the knowledge that E.T. exist,
This is your problem.
E.T.s were a hoax created by state-actors for the purposes of:
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Screwing with the Soviets. Make them think we have tech that we don't so they waste resourced trying to replicate it based on little clues that were sprinkled around,
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Public cover for real black projects. Those black flying triangles that are on radar one second and gone the next were seen shortly before the stealth aircraft projects were declassified in the 90s. Aircraft that we don't know of can't quite account for all of the sightings. Obviously there are more.
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Getting the public ready for a fake first-contact scenario. What would promote a global government better than us "learning" that we're not along in the universe.