Let's all cut the bullshit.
"Gender" does not exist. There is no definition of it. Nobody can agree what it means. It is impossible to change from male to female and back again just by wishing it so.
There are two SEXES: male and female.
There are zero GENDERS, because "gender" has no meaning, which means it DOES NOT EXIST.
It is only a term used to confuse, divide, and conquer. Nothing more, nothing less.
Stop using that term.