The love or lust test – are you a lover or a luster?
Love or Lust
Love seeks the best for the object of affection at its own expense
Lust seeks the best for self at the other’s expense
Love seeks to fulfil the other’s desires
Lust seeks to fulfil self’s desires
Love feeds the other and promotes the other’s personal growth
Lust feeds ON the other and eventually consumes the other.
Love seeks empowerment to serve the other and makes no demands
Lust seeks power over the other to control the other
1 Corinthians 13
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.