>>6522635
First:
>>6522840
This.
Second, I'd give one piece of advice. "Love" is a misunderstood concept for men and women, and it's often not taught properly. And, no, you won't get it from some book out there. This is one of the best kept secrets that everyone should know about.
We all know what lust is, and that's not love. Though, physical attraction is a must for getting things started, love is complicated because it depends on who's talking about it. To break it down simply:
Men + Love = Adoration
Women + Love = Admiration
In other words:
Men adore women. Women admire men. That's love. It's that simple, actually.
The moment a man starts behaving in a way that is less admirable than what made that woman fall for him to begin with, things start breaking down. Men feel adoration for women, and the moment they start behaving in a way that is adverse to that, thing start to break down. Seek out and recognize/praise her for all the things you adore her for. Continue to work on and improve all the qualities she admires you for. If you are unsure what those are, ask her! Communicate!
Take this little secret with you all your years together. Your marriage will be the healthy example all seek to understand and emulate.