Roger! My attorney fees were roughly in the 15K range but her's (at $300 an hour each) drug it out for an additional year so total combined cost or true cost would be approaching the 40K mark. Tough but worth it.
Note to future victims - let it go with a little slack then say you are "FILING FOR BANKRUPTCY" (you don't even have to follow through just use it as leverage but if you are willing and able its even better) that fuks their lawyers shit up for realz.
Better alternative is to have a relationship with a level headed grounded person(a) with prenup and avoid all the fukery.
PS - lawyers SUK