Just "not existing" is not one of your options. It's looking like an eternity of torture in Hell, unless something changes. That does not make me happy to say.
No, hell is not because of what was done TO you, but because of what YOU DO. You have broken God's laws, lied, stolen, taken His name in vain, looked with lust, etc. (The 10 commandments). God did something for you, so you wouldn't have to go to Hell. Because that's just how wonderful He is, but most people won't avail themselves of this redemption because of pride and they love their sin. I hope you aren't one of those.
I'm not sure where you got that idea. God will bring perfect justice to EVERYONE, goy, elite, rich, poor, religious, irreligious…. Sometimes some of this retribution happens on earth, but mostly it awaits us after death. BUT, He has prepared a way to show mercy, for goy, elite, rich, poor, religious or irreligious alike. That's why the word Gospel means Good News, because Good News you and I don't have to get what we deserve…