I don't know whats worse anon. Asleep spouseanon or a "woke" spouse who still wants to know if we can 'just watch this one new movie as a cute date?'
I get that research, digging, memeing, and spreading the word is not for everyone, but when spouseanon claims to believe but then is watching 'real housewives' it is so discouraging.
Or when I bring up JA being extradited and I get… "Who's that?"
Everyone must find this in their own way in order to make it genuine. I don't discuss the heavy stuff with her but I do provide proofs as they come.
If your wifeanon has the ability to think critically then you know that once more tangible proof comes along, she will understand. This movement shatters the entire facade that we all grew up with; it's not an easy undertaking.