>How to RedPill Your Wife
Your thread reveals that you yourself were asleep at the wheel for the last several decades. Because if you had done your due diligence as a Believer, Husband, Father, and Patriot, (before Q), you would have known the Truth a very long time ago, and wouldn't have to be trying to red-pill family members today.
Note to (your)self: Those who are not AWAKE, tend to not listen to people with sleep (sand) still in their own eyes.
Had you not only woke in recent years, you would know that your cookie-cutter instructions are ridiculous and lame (albeit well meant). I have been red-pilling for decades, (before the Matrix). And after the Matrix was released, I immediately adopted the "red-pill" analogy and was using it back in 1999 (because I was "woke" long before the Matrix ever came out).
Every person is different. The only way to wake people is to find that chink in their Theological/World View ARMOR, and then to patiently exploit it. I have literally awakened thousands of people, and every time, the experience and the method is different.
So sorry, anon. I know you mean well. But your methodology is not well thought out, and that is because you yourself have not been awake and doing your job over the last decades.
Moral of the story?
Recently recovered addicts make bad mentors.