This reminds me of the story: a lady was horribly abused by her husband, then he died. The lady’s friend offered her condolences, knowing well the suffering.
The friend said well at least he left you wealthy. Lady said well he asked me to put all his money in the casket. Friend says oh no, you didn’t did you. Lady says, yes of course, l did as he asked.
I put a check in the casket for the full amount.