If a gender confused or scammer starts giving you shit about their pronouns, move to a public place. If they persist, inform them that you do not consent to participate in their sexual role playing. Warn them that you do not consent zero or more times. If they are escalating the intensity of the situation call 911, otherwise call the local cop number. Report the incident.

You may need to decide if this is worth your job. I don't care to provide my services to entitled racists, sexists or crazy people at all, so I would sooner quit than continue in this position. After all, the weirdos and criminals aren't my problem and if the management can't find any competent pussies to do the work, eventually they are going to have to choose between going out of business or not putting up with it either. If they want to kneel to this crap I'm not giving them my business.