Q has mentioned PROJECTION. This is a psychological defense common amongst narcissists. Often / typically, what is projected is SHAME of the narcissist, which is / can be unconscious shame.
When bully RN belittles you in front of colleagues, it expresses both projection (trying to make you ashamed, feel guilty, etc.) and the narcissistic grandiosity of the bully.
QResearch is generally not the place for these sorts of appeal for help. However, what you are experiencing has parallels at the social level. When dems / libs / pols / deep staters virtue signal and berate PDJT, deplorables, etc., this also betrays PROJECTION of shame and narcissistic grandiosity (in the moral domain).
Narcissists can be extremely emotionally manipulative. Thus …
… in the same way that THE PLAN is an incredibly difficult and complex undertaking, dealing with a narcissist in you life can also be most demanding. You have to start educating yourself. Perhaps speak to a hospital Psychiatrist about what can be done to protect yourself within HR admin guidelines. Narcissistic bully probably has superiors hoodwinked as to her true nature.