Merry Christmas to you too, anon. To everyone.
Someone please tell me how to make Christmas better for spouseanon. Her son hasn't spoken to her since 2016. She thinks I can't hear her crying upstairs. Our family has been through its own storm. Whatever might come with "the plan" can't hold a candle. It hurts that she's hurting and I can't help.
Prayers for anyone else who is also hurting.