>>7644372 JA is the odd man, the grey player.

>>7644690 We fight the good fight, which means that when we speak, it is the truth. There is always a scale of how much to give them, or whether to dodge this or that issue at the moment if it is the best perceived route toward the goal of awakening the person without alienating them. Best if they one day think it was all their idea, that they discovered it. Like letting the girlfriend or boyfriend believe that they are the one who ended it. Nevertheless, if cornered, we give it to them raw, because deplorable.