perception?
you see them in their wickness being punished for the things that you knew better to not do?
the idea of relativism isn't always that there are these false opposites. Sometimes it means that I know I can't share you a proof of why something is wrong, but you ignore me at your peril.
And the rule of 'as we forgive those who tresspass against us' applies to all.
so if you do bad you can still make ammends but you have to understand what you did wrong and fix it in yourself.
yes, there is a 'right' and a 'wrong' about very many things. And the callus who take your point of view? they really aren't anyone.