You should accordingly dock the pay you send him
"how to hide a girl in plain sight"
I stole it so…. ;-)
Lost my father in 08 as well, then five years ago I survived it. I feel guilty, why do I get to survive it and not my father, he was such a better man then me. Hard to find a family that hasn't been touched by it. But there is comfort in knowing we'll be rejoined one day.