Fuck NYS court system.

Just got final decision in a court case that has been going on since July.

You really & truly are FUCKED when you don't have a lawyer.

Ex had a fancy lawyer, he was actually a lawyer for the insurance company for Montesano, the Round-Up evil company. Not sure why a big shot lawyer takes a family law case, but whatever…

No Lawyer would taken my case because they said it was an "open & shut" case & straight forward (child support)

But that was not what happened here. Even when I had made good points, the judge would agree with what I was saying, the lawyer would say why he didn't agree & the judge would move on. Said he will send us his decision in the mail. In the 1st Decision I get after, it has all the Lawyers arguments in it & goes against me.

I files Objection to the Decision & got the Final judge decision & he uses all the arguments from the ex'es lawyer to dismiss my objection.

Fuck I give up.

The dude has 4 cars, 400k house, makes over 300k a year & he fought me over 70 dollars a week.

Everyone I talked to said the judge would throw his case out because it was dumb, the judge would never agree with my ex & not to worry about it. That Magistrate went against me in every aspect. Sorry for the rant I'm just so fucking mad right now. I give up. I fucking give up. No one would help me. So I went & did it myself. And I just got the shit kicked out of me for being so dumb in thinking I could stand up to bullshit.

Fuck my life.

>>8013262

Yes, it's something I said. But I guess said figuratively. Win or lose in Court, I still have responsibilities with raising my kids. That never goes away. At least the kids & I won't have to see him anymore.

>>8013296

Other way around. He is paying me less $70 a week. Means nothing to him, is a big deal to us. The Objection to the Decision basically said that I didn't present my case properly. I put more info in the Objection than the trial(I didn't know WTF I was doing) So it read like, "If this was presented, if this was stated"

My own fault for not knowing What was going on. I figured it out AFTER, that's why I filed the objection. And added all the info in that.

It's all my fault I lost. But it was ridiculous for the judge to agree with me & yet go against me. If I didn't think he had enough info, I would have gladly explained more. Sorry, I'm mad so I'm not making any sense. I just got it in the mail & I have no one to say out loud anything to, if that makes sense.

Yes, I'm being a thread sliding faggot. I'm sorry

>>8013522

1) No, I won't. He has stopped coming to get kids for the past 6 months now. Not even a part of this anyway so no reason for you to bring it up

2) We got along fine for 11 years since our divorce.

3) Duh

4) I tried that route. They only represented me but said they can't give legal advice. His lawyer kept trying to make offers that was below the 25% he is expected to pay. I tried the non-profit, they also told me it's too straight forward of a case so would not rep me

Grow up.

>>8013536

Thank you. You are right. It's hard to do at 1st though. But I will try