Most advice about finances is boring though.
Be a decent person.
Make a budget.
Stick to it.
Create an emergency/go to hell fund.
Do NOT touch the emergency fund unless it is an actual emergency.
Make a list of your debts.
Pay them down one at a time until they are gone.
Figure out what you're good at/what excites you.
Try to make that the thing where you spend the most time.
Don't let bad people take over your life/energy.
Best wishes to you anon. Love.