>when one is here 12-16 hours a day every day for 3 years.
appreciate how you are holding the line but 12-16 hours a days means you are an officer in [ABC] or limited in your ability to get out.
It is important for one's well being to interact face to face with others.
just because you have achieved titanium level skin doesn't mean others have the ability or patients to walk on this kind of troubled sea.
o7 to both of you.