Well, I was sexually assaulted on a school bus by kids a couple of years older than me and it did not feel good. It made me embarrassed, esp. when they bragged to each other about it in front of me.
And I never told any adults that it ever happened. In fact, I repressed the memory until I was in my 40s.
Kids know that something is wrong.
And Oprah doesn't even have any kids so she should just STFU