You mean like this garbage, presented as the pinnacle of Critical Theory in universities since the 1960s? Jacques Derrida, laughing all the way, father of all Leftist insanity:
It is thus the woman's absence that gives immediacy to her imaginary possession, while to deal with the woman's presence would inevitably be to confront differance. Masturbation is both a symbolic form of ideal union,
since in it the subject and object are truly one, and a radical alienation of the self from any contact with an other. The union that would perfectly fulfill desire would also perfectly exclude the space of its very possibility.