I know exactly how you feel. Back in '78 basically the same thing happened to me. Add another 200k to the equation and it's almost a mirror. I went from 300k+=0 and married/divorced (and wife anon pregnant) It took me 10+ years to recover with a whole new career and a 240k pay cut. Stay alive. Stay well. It's only about the $$$ if you listen to them.
tyb