>>8826240 (pb)
This is worth a read. Also, remove the context of Q and think about this in your daily lives. We are story driven creatures. We have data points in our heads (pieces of information), and even when we don't know the whole story the natural human thing to do is fill in the gaps. We ALL do this. This is how/why people jump to conclusions about what other people do and why. The story in your head can control you if you let it. Depending on personality, some of us see dark intentions where there are none, we just don't have the full picture. I whole heatedly recommend a book/course called "Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High". It can change your life. You will find people will tell you everything when they feel safe to do so. God bless friends.