That's what they call "likes" there
Ok.
Thoughts create time and space. What we call reality is a mental process. The externalized world is created by your mind. The more you think about this, the more you create the dream. Stop thinking entirely and the dream disappears. So the spoon both is and isn't. You are dreaming of it, so it is, but it is only a dream so it isn't.
If you think it's more complex than that you will think your way into misunderstanding again.
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Most of the stuff you consider "new age" isn't, and is considerably older than most currently popular religions, fyi. Not that you'll listen until Q tells you.