This realm is temporary. A simulation. A test. We are not humans having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.
When the lights come one, you won't want to be one of "them".
Love is indeed a frequency. An energy. It's the frequency you're looking for. It will lead you to the source of both. There you will find all the answers to what you seek. And you WILL find them. One day.
Oh, and.. As far as frequencies of energy. It's been my experience that you want to stay well away from some the others.