I think I've been an overwhelmer in the past, trying to learn better approaches. Some truth-minded part of me is worried this approach can become deceptive, even if in the service of truth. Jesus used questions, led people using their own logic, didn't tell nearly everything he knew, so that all makes sense. Help me grasp how the person doesn't wind up feeling manipulated, especially if they discover the whole time you were playing dumb. As a salesfag, this is the kind of stuff that might work in the moment when I'm at a store, but afterwards I'm angry and I don't go to that store again. Help me out.