^^THIS^^
>about him defending….
Not a personal rag on you anon. #Bring Back the Possessive Pronoun. It took them 30-40 years, but they they took away the possessive pronoun, made all about me, me, me, him, him him.
Don't forget about him defending whatever. It's not about him. it's about something he did. The object is whatever he did. Correct grammar: Don't forget about his defending whatever.