Trying to catch up.
Anon asked about the book some breads ago
gloggle trans;
-"Tommy Hellsten, therapist, theologian, appreciated lecturer and author, illustrates what happens to children who grow up in the shadow of a "hippopotamus" - alcoholism, workforce, obsessive religiousism, violence or other forms of vulnerability. They often fall into a "conditional" - a disease or disease-like condition that occurs when a person lives near a very strong phenomenon and can not process this phenomenon so that she can integrate it into her personality, but adapts to it."