Prayer for her. Especially hard most of the time for those who ace the sheep factories. Imagine having to come to terms that all that got you As, almost your whole life, is a lie ? To o much cognitive dissonance. Start with tiny little things where you both can agree, ask her how she would do it, etc. If she needs alone give her wide berth.
In any case if she doesn't get the pill now she won't be able to do anything than get the tank size suppository later. In the end, the choice to know is hers and only hers.
Keep up the light fren