It happens.
My brother has 3 of them (that I know of).
Skin color is irrelevant.
Single parent household growing up.
Parent working or busy neglecting me & brothers.
Public schooling.
Picture if you will, free-range parenting with no supervision whatsoever.
Living it is different than watching it.
True.
Unfortunately you will only be able to picture it through the minds eye. There is no information transfer modality that enables you to walk in my shoes or visa-versa.
You are confused and missed the point entirely.
Chortle, snortโฆ
Canโt wait.