anons a close fren of mine - older gentlemen - i suspect might be/have been gay but i dont care its not my thing - he lives alone and was married with a very nice adult son he raised. He talks about women and has a girlfren but that dont mean much
we live in a rural recreation area
now he has a house guest - gulp - an 11 year old boy
now MANY people have their grandkids stay here for a few weeks every summer but this dont sit right
20 years ago i would not have given it a thought and perhaps he is just old fashioned and the kid needs a gramps (pic related!)
but i worry