>All races can live harmoniously when given the chance
Self segregation towards one's own ethnic majority is the natural course of things. It is a naive pacifist lie to believe we can live assuming that other's are not willing and intent on seeing to our annihilation based on our ethnic heritage.
A group in the minority in any given society will remain quiet and docile up until that point that they gain enough people and political momentum behind them to call for the toppling of the dominant majority group.
It's not a matter of hate that these things must be understood, it's a matter of historical fact.