To the Anon in the last bread…
I hate to say it, but how much do you care about this woman?
>Are you cool with her family ruling over you and your emotions via your attachment to her?
>If she's so afraid of being cut off from her family, doesn't that indicate that her family will hold away over you two as a unit?
>If the two of you are a lifelong unit, then this is your business. If it's not your business, you two are not a lifelong unit.
>Will she stand up to her brother and her family if you two have a daughter? Or will the family's money be worth HER soul, too?
>Are you two really on the same page about the most basic issues of how right and wrong should be handled?
>What is your relationship with her family and its money going to be in 10 years?
>What would you be willing to sacrifice for somebody you truly loved, and what sacrifices would you be willing to make for her?
>Will you be stuck with this eating away at you forever should you go further with her?
As cold as this may sound, you have to think about your options and what is important to you.